TIME FOR CHANGE, BUT FIRST WE SHOULD LOOK AT REALITY

Reality is about what is real; and it cannot be changed no matter what you do. There  is no do over, no replay. 

There was a movie that became a television show called, "My So Called Life."

It was someone real life being filmed, just like all these reality shows.  If a person dies while the show was being taped there would be no replacement to step in the role.
 
Just like what is happening the Teresa on the Housewives of New Jersey, who is going to serve time in prison.  There is so much reality going on in her family's life, that we all could not help but think this was their reality.  She will be leaving her kids and serving time even before her husband, who truly did the crime.

Most young people do not really vision their future, until they are about the graduate from high school, sometimes not even then. They may be still in the moment, and their choices at that time will be based on whatever is happening right at the moment.  

The point is you do have a choice.  We can't expect every choice to be the right one and that everything will be perfect, so think about if carefully. 

There will be bumps in the road of life, they can cause your plans to change completely.  If that happen, hopefully you can adjust your plans and have no regrets.  Which is what a choice is really about?