Do you think you are your own worse enemy?
Some people seem to get angry with the whole world when things don't go in their favor. If you just assume that you will get the job, then someone else gets chosen, you can wonder why? You may be examining everything from the interview to the requirements in order to see where you fell short. You have examined your own strengths and weakness, don't just compare yourself to others. You should start with a self-examination of your life choices? It can help you not with just a job promotion, but relationships and how you handle issues in life.
You can be also setting yourself up for failure by your choices. It would be like taking a job that you are not prepare or train to do. Many people lose jobs because they accept a job that they don't know how to do. You can't be a cook if you never cooked.
What are you good at? Are you willing to do what is necessary to do better? You have to be prepared to stand in line. Examine your life, are there things that you are good at? Most of us know what we are good on and what we are not. What are the things that you are working at in order to do better? Everyone has somewhere in life that they can do better.
After you examine yourself, the next part of the process is making changes. That hard for some people, they decide to be satisfied with the way things are. That is when we become our own worse enemy. In order to lose weight, you have to change the food that you eat or will not eat. Your schedule at work and family can be an issue with diet, exercise even looking for another job. Then you have to set your mind to it, with a daily exercise without letting issues get in the way.
Very few people think that their attitude needs to changes in life. There are some who are not willing to change. We can't stop life from going on we have to be able to change with it. Don't keep the same attitude into the next phase of your life.
I wanted to be...
Top Mean #1
Comments